QUOTE (Hobo @ May 11 2007, 07:46 AM)

America seems to be stuck with bipolar thinking. It really wants to be friends with everyone - and in the eyes of the American people, we really do try hard to give aid when needed, do try the diplomatic route whenever possible, and generally be a nice country. That is why you read that Russia and the US should be friends.
Hate to be pedantic here, but actually, bipolar isn't a pattern of thinking. It's a pattern of extreme moods; extreme up and extreme downs.
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However, when the US feels like it is any way threatened, it shoots first and answers questions later. I guess that attitude comes from the heritage of the people who founded this nation. We are proud of how we grew to be a superpower against all odds. We beat the British and the Spanish/Mexico to expand the borders of our country. And while defeating the American Indians was not too difficult, our ancestors (including mine), did suffer through some pretty tough times to carve out the nation that you see today. America's rough and tumble history gives it a special "right" to be wary of other countries who do not like the US. One special privilege that the US has is we can preemptively attack other countries. We did that in Vietnam to stop the Communists. We did that again in Afghanistan/Iraq to stop terrorists.
There is a gem of truth here IMO.
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The irony is that American people really don't realize other countries have also gone through the same suffering to survive in this world as we did. The greater Eastern European area, including Russia, has known nothing but war and turmoil for thousands of years. Basically any nation that exists in the world today has fought a hard fight to maintain its sovereignty. The American people can be proud of their efforts to survive in a cruel world, but that does not make us something special. Still, many Americans think we have earned some special privilege to bomb countries (from Bosnia to Sudan) with impunity. If Americans think a country needs to be bombed for some reason...we bomb it, or invade it, or sanction it. Yet, if some other country tried to do the same thing to the US, we would be horrified.
Don't think you can speak of the whole nation concerning your first sentence. I realize that you are generalizing, though. But, give some of us more credit than your generalized masses here. I've come to realize that to the mighty comes the power to control others (sadly even in the career field). Even though what you say is more or less correct, I don't think I could find another country so endowed with power that would have been so benign in its intentions as the US. This doesn't mean to say that we have always had others' interest as paramount. However, since there must be a topdog in this world (such is the way of humans and animals), which country would be best? And, please no pie-in-the-sky statements about international communities and such. They last about as long as it takes for one person/country to become paramount...........again, such is the way of humans/animals.
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For some reason, the American way is the always the "right way" in the eyes of most Americans. Not only is it the "right way" for America, it also is is best way for the country that is being bombed or invaded as well! Iraq cannot be left alone to simply work out its internal problems by itself, like the US did during the Civil War. Today, so many evil forces are lurking in the world that the US must stick around and help Iraq find the proper way to organize their country.
Which country doesn't? If the US was wiped off the face of the earth, would there be peace?
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The same was true in Vietnam - the Communists were over-running all of Southeast Asia...the famous "domino effect". If the Communists were not stopped in Vietnam, they would soon control the whole world. Well, with 20/20 hindsight of that dismal war we see that the Communist threat in SE Asia was much larger in our imagination than it was in reality.
And the same "Americans know what is best of the world" attitude will prevent any future friendly relations with Russia. The Russian government will never be "truly democratic", Russian mafia will forever threaten to overtake the government, and now Russia is developing its petroleum supplies. Russia will surely hold Europe hostage to Russia's every whim. Oh, I almost forgot. Russia's nuclear stockpile and ballistic missiles can be turned against the US if some evil dictator takes over Russia.
Proper language from a guilty, self-hating American, with the luxury of speaking so freely forthright. What country would you prefer?
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So in the eyes of most Americans, Russia should best be left alone to wallow in its own internal turmoil. It certainly does not appear as if Russia will ever again reappear as a world power - so it is best for the US just to keep them at arms length. The thought of truly engaging Russia in a long term program to maintain a rational and healthy relationship between countries is - to most Americans - an inconceivable idea.
Have you polled every American on the earth? If not, I don't think you can logically or honestly make your last statement, either. Seems that your "intelligent, educated, and well-read " thoughts are somewhat ill-thought out. Depressed, are we?