I have no problem with Jews, or Israel's right to exist... I just have a problem with the behavior and arrogance of the Israeli government. I also have a problem with the constant instigating by militants.
I don't pretend to know all the answers, here... but when both sides are using an essentially religious argument for their misdeeds and their intransigence, I think they're really not interested in solving the problems that face them, and are therefore not deserving of our goodwill. Our picking sides in the conflict hasn't helped anyone except the Israeli establishment. I think that's wrong. I think all sides need to be held accountable. Right of return, and recognition of Israel, in my opinion, are the issues that need to be addressed.
And the 2 million plus Palestinian Refugees have a right to return were they were booted from their homes.
It's the only way to make right; those 2 million folks were booted from their homes.
While Israel cannot absorb that many people as it is - it must be done, and it must be an international effort. It was an international effort to create Israel - and it should be an international effort to right the wrongs that were commited then. You simply can't tell that many people to f-bomb themselves because it's not in Israel's interest to give back to these people what was theirs in the first place... Why do you think the Arabs call the Israeli's oppressors? You think it's totally undeserved? That the Arabs are being dishonest, or are tryong to screw the Israelis out of something? The way I see it - the Palestinians have been screwed, and they get more misery for their misery. The Israelis just want to live in peace in their homeland, and react zealously to any threat... they want to sweep the unfortunate and unfair treatment of the Palestinians under the rug... And it is so unfortunate how Americans always seem to side with Israelis... it only makes them more and more zealous.
Basically - both sides need to make concessions, and the international community needs to come together and pay the price for the way they allowed Israel to establish itself - at the cost of many human lives, and much property. Reparations must be made if Israel wants to live in peace, I fear; the form of these reparations, for many, must only be made in a "right of return" agreement.
I take no side; both sides must lose their pride, and the world must hold each side accountable. Otherwise - there will be no peace. What looks impossibly difficult could be simplified.

